Dating Advice For Women
By Marc Entz, Mon Jan 2nd
It can be difficult to be a woman in the dating arena. A lot ofthings can go wrong for you more than it can for your malecounterpart. Plus, men can be really dense about a few things.Well, no worries. Here are a few tips on what to do and not todo during a date. And if you find that you need more datingadvice you can download a free eBook on the subject of datingadvice for singles at http://www.purextc.gethotchicks.org 1. Timing is important - Timing as in 'on time'. No matter whatthey say, there is no such thing as 'fashionably late'. For thefirst date, this can give the guy jitters and make him thinkthat you've stood him up. For the later dates, having him waitfor you in the living room for half an hour with either yourroommate, your sister or, worse, your father is not somethingyou want him to do - whether it be for the embarrassing storiesor Dad's 'eyes of doom'. 2. Be nice - Have a positive attitude, find things that you likeand tell him. Compliment him about his clothes, how he looks andhow well the date is going. It puts him at ease and also makeshim feel important. It also shows him that you're taking noticeof him and you appreciate him.
But, don't lie. Like I said, look at the bright side of things -the service of the restaurant may have been slow but theambience was terrific. Try making it into a habit, you aren'tlying - you're just being diplomatic! 3. Do not complain - This doesn't mean that you shouldn't tellhim that something is wrong or something makes youuncomfortable. The way
you phrase it and the tone you use isimportant here. 'Venting' will not going to go over well withhim because he'll probably misinterpret it. Grin and bear itthen tell him after the date in calm, reasoned tones yourproblem. Trust me, he'll understand and he'll try to make it upto you. 4. Enjoy the date - A date is a chance to get to know each otherand to enjoy yourselves. Have fun during the date. Try not to behyper-critical and just take things in stride. If you're nothaving fun, your date will notice and, trust me, he will getnervous which will probably start ruining the experience forboth of you. Also, just let your guard down for a little while. Let him seethe real you. He may or may not like it, but in the end he willappreciate the honesty of the act. Besides, if he doesn't likeyou for you, why should you keep on dating? 5. Afterwards, show interest - If you really like the guy,waiting for the call after a successful date is nerve-wracking.Try giving him a day or two. He usually has to get his acttogether and work up the courage to call. If he doesn't call,he's probably still tongue-tied from being in your presence.Call him up to say hello. Talk about the date and how you hadfun and give hints. He will pick up on it and he'll probably beasking you for another date! Well, there are five tips for dating success. Hopefully, thisdating could help lead you through today's tough tangleof relationships. Happy hunting! About the author:For on dating for singles using online dating servicesyou can download a free copy of "Online Dating Secrets" by JackRivers here: http://www.purextc.gethotchicks.org |
